Nasvet za samske, za tiste, ki iščejo partnerja in tiste, ki so že skoraj obupali

Objavil/a Dajana Babič, dne 2014-03-08 ob 17:24:03

Saj o tem sem že pisala, pa moram spet...  In najprej in predvsem... govorim sami sebi in sama s sabo...

Vedite, da tisti eden oz. tista ena za vas obstaja. To je dejstvo in to si zapomnite. :)

Povsem druga stvar pa je, kako priti do te osebe, kako jo najti. Lahko, da stoji pred vašim nosom, pa je ne vidite, ker ste preveč žalostni, saj vi pač nimate sreče, ste rojeni na napačnem planetu itd..

Predvsem ne smemo imeti nobenih pričakovanj. Kar je seveda zelo zelo težko. Jaz dobijam na zasebni sporočilih na FB-ju "ženitne" ponudbe. Ti avtomatično odpadejo. Ne vem, zakaj ampak, to mi ni... Vsaj ne takoj na začetku... To sem jaz delala narobe,,, vsakomur sem že na začetku rekla, da mi je všeč, pa je oni izgubil zanimanje...

Naj bo zaboga to igra... naj bo prijetno iskanje. A bi vam bilo všeč, če bi vam kdo rekel, tako kot je ena ženska meni rekla... "Ej, poznam enga tipčka, tako si želi ženske, a bi ga prišla pogledat... mislim, da bi bila vidva lih za skupi"... Kaaaaj?

Ne, hvala. Partnerja si želimo najti sami, ane? In ne tako, da napišemo zasebno sporočilo taprvemu, ki pride mimo. To delajo obupanci. Jaz pa nisem obupana. :)

Res je, da sem samska več kot pet let in res je, da se imam zadnji dve leti zelo lepo. Ne pada mi na pamet, da bi šla v kakšno razmerje, razen seveda, če ni to razmerje, tako, kot sem si ga jaz zamislila. Kakšno razmerje je to... eeee... moški mora biti na moji valovni dolžini, ne sme me ignorirat... imeti mora podobne ideje, podobna veselja... to je to. To se začuti. Predvsem pa mora znati živeti popolnoma samostojno in se ne obešati na drugega človeka. Tisti, ki se obešajo na drugega so pri meni takoj izključeni. 

Partnerstvo, razmerja, ljubezen to je najbolj obtežena stvar v celotnem Vesolju. Koliko hudega se je meni zgodilo na področju partnerstva že v tem življenju... Že v tem življenju! Imela sem pet razmerij od svojega devetnajstega leta naprej in ko se je eno končalo, sem imela čez pol leta že drugega. Joka, potresov, žalosti in prepirov za celo morje. Kakšna pričakovanja sem imela, kakšne sanje, kakšna napačna prepričanja...

In kaj zdaj? Osredotočam se na področja, ki so v mojem življenju v redu. Sploh se ne brigam za moški spol. Vseeno je ali je nekdo ženska ali moški, lahko je moj prijatelj, moj sodelavec. Najbrž sem že zamudila veliko priložnosti. Na internetu sem imela že dve resni "razmerji", ko je kazalo, da bo "nekaj" v resničnosti. Pa sem to zaustavila, tik preden bi se moralo manifestirati. Sploh mi ni jasno, kdo je "ta" oseba. Mislim, da se bo to odkrilo samo od sebe. Mogoče, da delam kaj narobe, ampak res imam strah, da bi se mi kaj ponovilo od prej, ko mi je bilo z moškim res grozno. Mogoče sploh nikoli več ne bom z moškim. Vse, kar si želim pa je, da bi šla stran od mame in zaživela po svoje. Tako kot jaz želim, To je moja edina naloga in na to se osredotočam zdaj.

Nočem prehitevat. Kdo ve...vse možnosti so odprte... Meni sploh ni do tega, da bi bila z moškim skupaj zdaj, ampak, da bi živela samostojno življenje, sama s svojimi otroci.

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Apr 04, 2016
Ko tole berem je kot bi sebe brala, pred kakega pol leta.... Za take kot sva midve so opcija mogoče tudi tle eventi www.dogodkizasamske.si
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Ljuba Rebolj
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Mar 11, 2014
Eno <3 za vse ... :)
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Dajana Babič
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Mar 11, 2014
Seveda Stoyan. Vse že videno, slišano, izkušeno. :)
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Stoyan Svet
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Mar 10, 2014
moj mojster Prem Rawat rad ponavlja besede Sokrata, ki je rekel;
"To kar iščeš je v tebi" in ponavadi doda;"In če želiš priti v stik s tem, ti pri tem lahko pomagam" In res pomaga. Ko v sebi najdeš globlji stik s sabo želiš to nekaj lepega tudi deliti. vendar seveda tega ne mores z vsakim. Samo s tistim, ki je na podobni valovni dolžini, ki ima podobno mišljenje in podobne cilje, ki zna sprejemati, pa tudi dajati. Najvčeji problem partnerstva so neizpolnjena pričakovanja. Več pričakuješ manj dobiš in obratno, če nič ne pričakuješ, lahko dobiš veliko. Druga stvar je, da običajno ena oseba hoče nadvladovati drugo. Ženske pogosto izsiljujejo in moškemu dajo pogoj; če boš naredil to, pa to, ti bom dala, če pa ne, pa pač ne. To je trgovina, ki s kakim zrelim partnerstvom žal nima nič. Mnogi v partnerstva vlečejo tudi vzorce svojih strašev. Drugače pa; življenje je šola, vsak se v tej šoli življenja lahko kaj nauči, dana mu je možnost, sam pa ima svobodno voljo, da to izkoristi, ali pa ne. Smisel partnerstva je; da se imata obadva lepo. Če trpi eden, ali oba je tako partnerstvo nesmiselno. Veliko ljudi je v nesmiselnih partnerstvih. lp
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ROMAN VODE
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Mar 10, 2014
zame je prepozno
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Dajana Babič
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Mar 10, 2014
srček :)
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Danijel Golobič
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Mar 10, 2014
še najbolj se strinjam z Edom :)
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Vlatka Kozlovič
1
Mar 09, 2014
Dajana,

ko si sama s sabo zadovoljna in srečna, in veš kakšnega partnerja bi imela, takrat pride nepričakovano. Ni pomembno kako, ker ga ne ocenjuješ po tem, pač pa po energijah, ki jih oddaja.

In seveda lahko živiš sama, dokler takega ne spoznaš.

Da bi imela partnerja zaradi partnerstva samega, je bedarija, ki se ne obnese.

Zato uživaj sama s sabo, potem pride tudi pravi., ki bo užival s teboj, pa ti z njim.
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Edo Torkar
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Mar 08, 2014
Preveč si na internetu in premalo med ljudmi
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azra
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Mar 08, 2014
Dajana, mogoče pa ti je ta ženska želela dobro. Ti si bila samska in njen prijatelj je bil samski. Mogoče pa se je njej zdelo, da sta si podobna, da bi bilo dobro, če vaju spozna. Kasneje bi vidva že sama ugotovila, ali sta za skupaj ali ne.
Ljudje se družijo in tako se pletejo prijateljstva, poslovne niti, ljubezni ....
Dajana, ljubezen ne iščeš. Pride sama, enostavno jo srečaš, vidiš ....
Veliko sreče ti želim!
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Darka Alijeski
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Mar 08, 2014
tudi tebi bo posilajo sonce , verjemi ... ampak resnično pa ti želim da se osamosvojiš stran od mame ... če se le da.... le tako boš svobodno zadihala in zaživela in takrat boš pripravljena sprejeti partnerja, ki ti ga je sigurno že namenilo Stvarstvo .... da spet zaživiš v polni ljubezni ... to ti res iz srca želim in privoščim , ker te čutim ... da si prava ženska z velikim Ž ---- malo je takšnih <3 :*
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Dejan Kutić
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Mar 08, 2014
Dajana <3
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Dajana Babič
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Mar 08, 2014
Ljuba <3
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Ljuba Rebolj
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Mar 08, 2014
Dajana <3
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