There is guy who asked me if we would try to be together. This is not like somebody from internet, who is coming into my private messege and is asking me: "Hi, I like your profile picture. Are you single?" (Oh, yes, I am single, so we can marry next month. :D)

People are so desperate those days about love partners. Life is now going on social media. People stop socializing outside, they stay inside their flats and talk with others on a phone... I mean texting. They don't go anywhere out. How did we get our partners before internet? In school, at working place... But my last one was already from internet. First we had virtual relationship, than we saw us in "reality".

One can easy fall in love with people who see at first time. Gregg Braden is talking somewhere that he was in one day in love with five women... this is like this feeling of adoration... It's not what we are seeking. A man is not complete without a woman and vice-versa. All other is just seeking, seeking, going into relationship, being hurt, going out... and seeking another one again. We are seeking all the time, because it is so natural to us. It feels that we are complete. The other person is another me. 

I never saw so many calls from men to get a partner on social media like in last two years. It's like - they are just people who are not in relationships around. Desperate... They put a post that they want a women for sex... but actually what they want to have is a life partner, which is much more than a sex partner... 

So, I got this question from a very special person if we can be together and immediatelly I was in panic... What if he comes tomorrow... or next week... I don't have any clothes, I still need to loose 20 kg... omg, omg... where we will live... what this... what that... aaaaa....No, better not! It's one thing to talk with a person on internet, otherwise is, how you match in real life. The person on the screen is looking otherwise than in reality. We tend to write nice things about us, not bad... Actually - virtual reality is much harder way to get a relationship. Or not? This is just a false belief? Thirty years ago you saw this person and from the first look you felt if you like this person or not. Nowadays is different. And we have all kinds of fears from before, and all kinds of blockages... So we better not to try at all, because we can be wounded again! And we can go back to our room and feel sorry about us. I mean... in case of my parents - there was one partner and you marry and you are together till death do us apart. I know lots of widows, who don't even try to find anyone else, they are faithful to their partner who is dead already thirty years. But life is going on! There is no death, we live forever.

So, what do you do, if your relationship is over? You look for a soulmate.