Yesterday, something happened that I need to share with you.
In the morning, I told (typed out) to a dear person what I thought about them—that they have a big ego, that they do the same things to their children as their father did to them. That you shouldn’t treat children the way I do, using my own example. And similar preaching.
Then, we texted back and forth all day, and in the end, I said I was going to sleep and turned off my phone—because I always turn it off at night.
And then it hit me. My Higher Self told me: "Apologize to him quickly—how dare you criticize him like that? That was your ego. I turned my phone back on and asked him to forgive me for my harsh words, saying that he is a good and respectable person and that I’m very grateful we talk. He only wrote: Ok, I understand. He never commented beyond that—just ok. He never complained, defended himself, or said I was wrong.
I still felt guilty, ashamed, and I did Neville’s clearing of past events technique. In my mind, I went back to before that text where I vented all my bitterness at him… and I also physically deleted the text. Then, in my mind, I created a different scenario, as if my outburst had never happened.
That’s how I was able to fall asleep—otherwise, it would have tormented me all night.
Always apologize to people if you’ve wronged them. If possible, do it immediately. Don’t wait an entire day!
Apr 14, 2025